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LM Frontier Traveler

Age : 40 Joined : 20 Feb 2007 Posts : 572 Location : Bama ~ USA ~ Planet Earth Mood : 
| Subject: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Sun Apr 01, 2007 10:19 pm | |
| Hello, gang. I hope you're doing well.
I took a few days off from visiting here, but as you can see, I'm back now. I needed to catch up on some rest and to have a little down time to gather my thoughts. March 30th marked the 4th year of my mom's death and I had to deal with that. I got through the day pretty well, but the 2-3 weeks before were kinda tough. I stayed busy here and at my forum during those weeks to occupy my mind, but decided to let it all go for a few days and just chill. I took flowers to her grave on Friday. I took my grandmother with me, and while she shed some tears, I managed to keep myself together. I always talk to mom when I visit, and I think that helped me feel a little better.
I'm feeling better today, and hope to continue to do so.
I missed you guys.
Take care. _________________

LM
"If you can't be good, be good at it." |
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sweetheart Ingalls Friend for Life


Age : 25 Joined : 15 Feb 2007 Posts : 3317 Location : canada Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:10 am | |
| | Welcome back!!Good to see you back AWW,I'am sorry about ur mom! I'am glad u feel better. |
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Rhonda Prairie Survivor


Joined : 07 Sep 2006 Posts : 5949 Location : Out of My Mind!! Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:39 am | |
| Welcome back.....taking the time to grieve is part of the process of healing. I am glad things went well and I know in time, you will be able to deal with this all in stride.......  _________________
 
SURVIVOR-10 YEAR REMISSION-APRIL 9, 1998-2008-CELEBRATE!  |
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Susie Old Rugged Cross


Age : 66 Joined : 03 Oct 2006 Posts : 4506 Location : What A Friend We Have In Jesus Mood :  Character Name:
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:49 am | |
| Welcome back LM. I'm sorry for your loss. _________________ I could give up chocolate but I'm no quitter!
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pamh36 Ingalls Friend for Life


Joined : 08 Sep 2006 Posts : 3148 Location : Michigan Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 3:10 pm | |
| {{{{HUGS}}}} That's good that you took some time to yourself to reflect and to continue to heal. I'm glad that you were able to spend some time with your grandmother as well.
Welcome back. _________________
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Lily "Beautiful Life"


Joined : 07 Sep 2006 Posts : 5064 Location : In the town shopping Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:37 pm | |
| Welcome back LM I remembered you mentioned about your Mom's anniversary a while back...remember all the 3's...lol It was really good that you took the time out to grieve and you were so strong, I didn't do too well on my Dad's anniversary. I'm sorry for your loss. I do know that cherishing all the great memories is one way to keep our loved ones alive in our hearts. _________________
  "Within the heart of every stray, lies the singular desire to be loved." |
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Savannah "Psalm 34"


Joined : 07 Sep 2006 Posts : 12272 Location : Sheltered in the arms of God Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 7:54 pm | |
| Welcome back, LM. {{{hugs}}} _________________
 Pray hardest when it's hardest to pray. |
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Melissa Frontier Traveler


Age : 18 Joined : 07 Sep 2006 Posts : 539 Location : New York City Mood :  Character Name:
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Mon Apr 02, 2007 9:19 pm | |
| Welcome Back LM. So sorry for your loss but i'm glad you took some time to relax and get through it. _________________
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LM Frontier Traveler

Age : 40 Joined : 20 Feb 2007 Posts : 572 Location : Bama ~ USA ~ Planet Earth Mood : 
| Subject: Re: I was away for a couple of days, but I'm back. Wed Apr 04, 2007 10:05 pm | |
| Thank you all, so much.
Yes, it's quite hard to deal with at times. As you've said here, and as I've been told by others, time will make a difference. Every year I wonder how I'll fair in the next year. Getting through the first year was horrible. Some of you know exactly what I mean, but I managed. I'm much better than four years ago, and I hope that four years from now I'll be even better still.
Again, I really appreciate the kindness you've all shown me, and I'm happy to return the favor for anytime you guys need someone to listen to whatever.
Love ya! _________________

LM
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