I need Advice!

Subject: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 2:28 pm

I know i post a lot of problems on here about my friends! and am sorry that i do!.....Sometimes i just need to vent and let out my problems!....I don't know why but for some reason this problem has really affected me emotional and i just don't know what to do about it!!!

how do you just for get about some one??...How do i just move on and let go??..It's hard and never easy!...It just doesn't seem fair to me!...It seems whenever i feel close and get really attached to a person something bad happneds and i end up losing a good friend!....It's likei expect to much and get hurt and mybe am too trusting!

Or mybe this person wasn't so nice or such a good truse friend like i thought she was!...I mean if she was a truse friend would of stuck by me and belived me right??..it's like all my other friends i've talked to belived me and know i would't of done anything like that!..Just her other friend made up all thses lies about me saying i did all this stuff which i never did! ( i only role played has ppl on this other site long long time ago but don't do that anymore)!but anyways all my friends that know me like well enough now i would't do anything to hurt my friends!!....This just really hurts me so much!...You think you know people and then its like wow did't think this person was like this, sometimes friends can really fool you!

It just feels like iam always geting blamed for stuff!

Iam trying to think postive and hope for the best that mybe the truth will come out in time!..what should i do just forget about her? try and talk to her?or mybe waite and see if she talks to me again???/...Has this ever happned to you before?

thanks for listing!!!

Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:15 pm

You know my feelings on this Krissy. If she were a true friend she would not put you through this all of the time. I say move on, you don't need people like this in your life.
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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:26 pm

I Would Leave her alone and move on i'll give you some advice on friends try to get involved at Church you might find some great friends there that would stick by you all the time
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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:33 pm

Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:37 pm

yeah i guess it is!.... i might be hanging out with my friend tommorry anyways! so thats good..not sure what we will do tho!! GreenSmile

Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 5:55 pm

You've gotten some excellent advice here, Krissy. You know what I think, already, through PMs. I think it's wonderful for you to get out, and get together with your friends in real life - and to get involved at church, and find hobbies........You don't need the stress that those people are putting you through. Life is just too short and too precious to waste on trying to please thoughtless, unkind people. The more you get around true friends, the more you'll know how you *should* be treated. Smiley Hug

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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 6:52 pm

Thanks for the advice!!!..I know what all of you guy's are saying are true!..I guess i just had to here once again!!... Cool

Subject: Re: I need Advice! Wed Jul 23, 2008 7:51 pm

It's never easy to move on, but if someone isn't treating you right then you shouldn't be around her. I can't tell you how many times people who said they were my friends hurt me, but I can't dwell on that. I need to surround myself with true friends who lift me up.

Good luck Krissy!
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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:36 am

Subject: Re: I need Advice! Thu Jul 24, 2008 1:52 pm

True friend

A pal is one
With whom you can have fun
Who'll listen to you and talk
With whom you can share a joke
One you can drink with
And who with you will dine
One with whom all will look rosy
All pretty and all fine...

But when comes adversity
You'll seldom find him by your side
And even if stay does he,
Not long will he abide.

A true friend is one
With whom you can talk
'bout all under the sun
With whom you can laugh and joke
Drink, dine and have fun
And who to you will lend a ear
With him all will be Okey doke'.

Then, when hardship knocks...
You'll find him by your side
Always.
You he'll never leave
But try best to you guide
When you sigh, he'll too heave
When you fail to succeed
He'll try to bring to fruition
Your deed
When you fall sick
He'll bring relief
When the whole world mocks,
He'll stand by your belief
If all else the other way looks
He'll share your grief
Even if harm befalls ye
He'll stand in its way
And will not hesitate even a bit
To endanger his life, to lay down it.
And prove that a friend in need
Is a friend indeed!

Such a friend is hard to come by
Who'll laugh with you, with you who'll cry
So if ever one you get,
Try to be worthy of your mate
And see that never breaks the bond
That you with him ties fond.

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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Thu Jul 24, 2008 2:06 pm

So true!
Thanks for posting that, Rhonda. There are some true friends right here on this board.
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Subject: Re: I need Advice! Thu Jul 24, 2008 5:19 pm