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PostSubject: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 10:45 am

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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 10:57 am

She may just be someone who likes to have her quiet time and to just be able to take a break from being social from time to time.

I wouldn't take it to heart, though I know sometimes it's difficult not to have hurt feelings; especially when you don't know how to take it. I do hope she was polite in saying it, and not rude. {{{hugs}}}


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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:04 am

I not really sure how iam suppose to take it tho..I'am not taking it to well,I understand ppl wanna be alone....but if u wanna be alone why be on msn or whatever...
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:38 am

Like Pam said, Rilla, don't take it to heart. Sometimes people just need a little bit of quiet time.......or have had a really bad day, and can't deal with talking to others right then. Maybe your friend had had a really bad day, and didn't feel up to talking. I know it's hard to not take things personally, but it probably has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with life in general for your friend. Just let her know that you're there if she needs to talk. {{{Rilla}}}
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 1:29 pm

ok
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 2:09 pm

She told me she needed space! so i told her i won't send her any more comments or messages for a while..and she can talk to me when she is ready or whatever...this just really pisses me off becuz iam guessing iam the only person she told me this too..
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 2:36 pm

That suck's Sorry......Just give her some space and time....
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 3:46 pm

don't know why this hurts me so much
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 5:24 pm

Sometimes when people are online, they are doing work, and can't talk. Maybe she is doing her school work, and her online status shows her online because she is.

I have my best friends on my IM list and we are on at the same time a lot, and if we don't say hi to each other, or whatever, we don't get mad. It's just because they are doing their thing, and I am doing mine.

Try not to take it too personal. :peace:
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 6:43 pm

she is not in school!
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 6:48 pm

Rilla,

All I can say is she's gotta be busy. Just because someone is online doesn't mean they have time to devote to a IM conversation. That's why I don't IM much and I only email my friends, as I am busy doing personal things.
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 6:57 pm

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Rilla,

All I can say is she's gotta be busy. Just because someone is online doesn't mean they have time to devote to a IM conversation. That's why I don't IM much and I only email my friends, as I am busy doing personal things.

Pretty much the same goes for me. Try not to take it to heart, Rilla. Like Savannah said as well, she may have been having a bad day.




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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:07 pm

MonicaQuartermaineFan wrote:
Rilla,

All I can say is she's gotta be busy. Just because someone is online doesn't mean they have time to devote to a IM conversation. That's why I don't IM much and I only email my friends, as I am busy doing personal things.

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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:19 pm

ok,
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:32 pm

i will get over it in time
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:38 pm

Yes you will Thumbsup


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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:41 pm

:peace:
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:57 pm

but not right now
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 7:59 pm

Rilla wrote:
iam guessing iam the only person she told me this too..

But it could just as easily be that she isn't up to talking with *anyone* and it's nothing personal against you at all. When something like this comes up, if it's a friend, it's helpful to give them the benefit of the doubt, and think the best of them. It can save a lot of heartache and misunderstanding when we try not to imagine the worst. (And that's not easy sometimes!!)
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 8:14 pm

Savannah wrote:
Rilla wrote:
iam guessing iam the only person she told me this too..

But it could just as easily be that she isn't up to talking with *anyone* and it's nothing personal against you at all. When something like this comes up, if it's a friend, it's helpful to give them the benefit of the doubt, and think the best of them. It can save a lot of heartache and misunderstanding when we try not to imagine the worst. (And that's not easy sometimes!!)

:agree: :yeahthat:
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 9:18 pm

mybe
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 9:20 pm

u guy's probly think ism s bsby
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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Fri Oct 12, 2007 9:43 pm

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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Sat Oct 13, 2007 12:41 am

Dear Rilla:

I can only talk quoting my own experience there.

Since my job is writing and making research, I'm a lot of time by night before the PC screen. But I'm working. I'm going to different Forums, searching info, etc. And I do not have too much time to devote myself to msn messages or chat. I just don't have time to it. And sometimes, I get tired because my job and don't want to speak to anyone on the net. So, maybe your friend is working hard, or is just tired and really needs a little time for herslef. Don't feel bad, nor believe she isn't your friend. Let her alone for a while, and when she will be more relaxed she will return to you all by herself.

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PostSubject: Re: ..................   Sat Oct 13, 2007 7:29 am

ya,i guess sioo
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