Friendship

Ok,I had this nice online sis(we were very close friends,i told her everything..)We used to chat all the time on msn....then all of a sudden we did't talk much any more..She kind of became friend with thses wicked people(who used to like to make fun of everybody on the side,they really injoyed starting fights with everybody) So her and her sister stort of became friends with the wick girls..

Then they started leaving me out,So i started feeling left out& ingored.I was really upset and mad..so i kind of did't some stupid and blow up at them.( we had a fight)..I said i was sorry to her but she never forgave me..So they countined to me mean to me.....I tryed like afther a while asking if we could be friends again,she never got back to me,So ii just gave up and tryed my best to move on...It's so very hard to forget about some one..

Now out of the blue her sister adds me has a friend on myspace,I have no idea why!!I don't if this means she wants to be friends again, or what..I added her back to be polite..I'am not geting my hopes up..

Have any of you guys had problems like this before?? what happned and what did u do??


Thanks for listing to me!!

Wow sweetheart,

Yes, it does feel awful when you fight with a close friend because you miss them.

Is your very close friend still friends with these bad people who like to make fun of everyone? Before trying to become friends again, see how your friend is acting. Is she behaving the same? Starting fights to make fun of other people? If so, would you want to be in that environment?

I think you did the right thing in accepting her as a friend on myspace, but just be careful before going back to them. Remember, your friends are the ones who you can truly be yourself with. If you feel that you have to act a certain way just to feel accepted by them, then they are not true friends. It's just better to be yourself, you shouldn't feel pressured by them to do things you feel uncomfortable doing and this deal of making fun of people is not good.

But, like I said, if you see that your friend has changed and is back to how she used to be when you two were very close, then give it time... you two might become close again. We're all imperfect and make mistakes so we must be willing to forgive each other. If she is being truly honest and is behaving well and wants to be friends again, then just be civil and kind to her, time will do the rest.

Just my two cents!

Thank!!You are very right..I'am not gonna get my hopes up this time..And if they don't like me for me.I'am not gonna be friends with them..

Thats good you got to works things out!!but yeah it's really hard to trust people afther they hurt you so bad!!


The other thing that really bugs me is my other net friend is still friends with the ex friend of mine..Which makes it harder on me..

I hope everthing works out!

I don't understand sometimes how people can be so cruel to eachother, especially someone you consider a friend.

I belonged to a stay-at-home mom forum once and you wouldn't believe how these grown women treated eachother. There was a clique there and it seemed every time you disagreed withone of them, all of them would gang up and pounce on you. Very immature. Needless to stay, I didn't stay at that forum for long.

That's good that you added her to your MySpace. Thankfully, sometimes people do have a change of heart. And I hope that's the case here. I wouldn't let my guard down though just yet.

Thank you!!

I don't blame you for not staying long on it.

Hey, Pam.
I'm sorry you had a rought time, too.
Yes, you'd think that adults could be a little mature. It's so awful. Sometimes I'll see an email forward from the girl I talked things out with over the phone, and in the forward, I'll see that other girl's addy. I just look and wonder...
Oh, well.
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Hi, sweetheart.
I understand where you're coming from. My friend is still friends with the ex-friend too. That's how I see the email addy in the forwards. You'll just have to take your time and decide on what you feel you can trust your mutual friend with. She may be there for you, and you two can work things out to be the best of friends. Just be careful and move slowly until you find a comfort zone.

Best of luck!

Yea friendship can be rough at times but you soon get to realise who your REAL friends are. And I agree, from experience, internet frienship can be a trial. I much prefer to see the reactions on peoples faces or hear the tone of their voice. It's a better way of reading people.

Hope things work out okay for you, Sweetheart.

thanks carolineingalls

Yeah it sure can be,I'am really now starting to find out who are my true friends..

Well i was just on myspace and my ex-friend deleted me off of her friends list..so i guess she did't wanna be friends.

thanks,

Sounds like your better of without them.

yeah,I guess i'am