I Need some advice about something!!

Subject: I Need some advice about something!! Thu Jan 05, 2012 7:29 pm

I meet this girl online on this forum. She's pretty much alway's so sad and depressed.She always complains about how she hates her life and she wants to die,She always talks about how know one cares or loves her. everybody is very much nice to her and gives her lots of support and gives her advice. It just never seems to be enough. she doesn't takes peoples advice she just gives excues to us saying she can't do that or it won't work.Sometimes she say's we don't understand, She also seems to have some kind of eating disorder least she must when people try and help her tell she needs to eat and get help she doesn't need food, I hate seeing people so sad and depressed.It hurts my heart. I really wish i could help her me. sometimes it seems like she rather stay in this way then get better. Have you ever meet anyone like this?

“Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.” ― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

Subject: Re: I Need some advice about something!! Thu Jan 05, 2012 7:45 pm

Yeah, Krissy, I've met people who are always depressed like that. It's almost like they have no desire to even try to be happy. Maybe this girl should talk to a doctor. There definitely are ways to get better, and see the world through clearer eyes.

Subject: Re: I Need some advice about something!! Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:03 pm

Rob wrote:: Yeah, Krissy, I've met people who are always depressed like that. It's almost like they have no desire to even try to be happy. Maybe this girl should talk to a doctor. There definitely are ways to get better, and see the world through clearer eyes.

True I agree. I just really hope this person does get better and become more happy. I really do think she does need "real" help.Or sometimes i wounder if some ppl do it for the attention.

“Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.” ― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

Subject: Re: I Need some advice about something!! Fri Jan 06, 2012 12:32 am

Yes, I know what you are speaking about, Krissy...and it's very sad to know people who acts this way, since we wants to help them with all our might and we have the feeling of never reaching their true heart. I had a friend who was this way, and she ended by loosing all her old friends. They just WANTED to help her and couldn't...

I'm still am her friend but it's not easy to be like her and she doesn't hear anything I said to her...I feel useless in front of her. banghead

Did you feel the same way?

Vanesa.

I Need some advice about something!! Vanesa10

Subject: Re: I Need some advice about something!! Fri Jan 06, 2012 10:11 am

Vanesa wrote:: Yes, I know what you are speaking about, Krissy...and it's very sad to know people who acts this way, since we wants to help them with all our might and we have the feeling of never reaching their true heart. I had a friend who was this way, and she ended by loosing all her old friends. They just WANTED to help her and couldn't...

I'm still am her friend but it's not easy to be like her and she doesn't hear anything I said to her...I feel useless in front of her. Did you feel the same way?

Vanesa.

[b]I sometimes don't pay attention to her comments anymore. Sometimes it's just so hard to be around her.Her moods kind of rub off on me. I've been trying harder to be more upbeat and happy. My friends online mean so much to me that i don't wanna lose them by being that way. I think mine make me feel happy so i have no reason to be un-happy.

I think she's a nice person but sometimes i feel she annoys ppl on theire too cause they keep saying the same things to her and it's no use.NOTHING get's threw to her,I'am her friend still.It's just hard.Feels the same

“Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.” ― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

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