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Julia Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 1871 Location : Georgia Mood :
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pamh36 Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5900 Location : Michigan
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 2:57 am | |
| I am so sorry to hear you are struggling. Like they say, the first step is coming to the realization that you need help. And, that is a huge step. You are in my prayers. | |
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Alice On The African Savanna
Number of posts : 10766 Location : Meerkat Manor Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 7:54 am | |
| I will be praying for you. I'm glad that you realized you need help. Spring is finally here, the lovely pink blooms on the "spray" tree outside my window are gone leaving a beautiful willow. | |
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Savannah "Psalm 34"
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| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:01 am | |
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Gin Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5920 Location : Curled up with a great book. Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:20 am | |
| You can do this my dear. You are one of the strongest teens I know. It is the lack of Christianity that has brought us where we are. Not a lack of churches or religious forms but of the real thing in our hearts. LIW.....Words From a Fearless Heart | |
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I Love Dean Frontier Traveler
Number of posts : 329 Location : Deanland Wisconsin Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:53 am | |
| Hey Sweetie,
First of all I am so proud of you for admitting you have a problem. Next I am the most proud of you for reaching out for help. You are a brave young lady and having a positive frame of mind works miracles. I know I am attest to that, it's what's getting me through my health issues. The fact that you are opening up and asking for prayer tells me you are ready to tackle this issue and gain your life back. To re-quote your signature by Audrey Hepburn
"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible''.
Good Luck Julia, we're all here for you sweetie. Lorrie | |
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Lori Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 6033 Location : A Buckeye in Michigan
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:59 am | |
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Krissy Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 45733 Location : Ontario, Canada Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 10:45 am | |
| * sending you lots of love* Hope things will get better for you.
“Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.” ― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables | |
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bethandmanly Dean's Dedicated Diva
Number of posts : 7600 Location : In a book Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 1:32 pm | |
| I'm sorry to hear about this, Julia. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I know you can beat this. | |
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Teresa Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5286 Location : Minnesota Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 1:46 pm | |
| Julia, you will be in my prayers. Thank you for sharing something so personal with us. That took a lot of courage. You are such a beautiful and strong girl, and I know that you will be able to overcome this. | |
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HarrisonCrosby4387 THE #1 Survivor fan
Number of posts : 4828 Location : AT THE CIVIC ARENA. Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 10:09 pm | |
| I never would have known. So sorry to hear that. I will pray that you get all the help you need. You deserve it. LETS GO PENS! | |
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alexczarn Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 22999 Location : Victor Harbor, South Australia Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Mon Mar 21, 2011 10:24 pm | |
| Congratulations on being brave enough to admit it and say that you need help. Praying for you to get thru this. | |
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ChristinaAL Little House Lady
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Vanesa Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5136 Location : Buenos Aires, Argentina Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Tue Mar 22, 2011 12:38 am | |
| As Lorrie said above, you are such a brave girl, Julia! My own cousin suffered from anorexia and was years and years denying she had a problem. Her principal trouble with HERSELF was not wanting to go and seek help. She was very proud. If you admits you have a problem and ask for help, you have half of your battle already won. I¡ll be praying for you, my dear. And how you've realized you are anorexic? Vanesa. | |
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Julia Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 1871 Location : Georgia Mood :
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Julia Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 1871 Location : Georgia Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Tue Mar 22, 2011 3:32 pm | |
| - Vanesa wrote:
- As Lorrie said above, you are such a brave girl, Julia! My own cousin suffered from anorexia and was years and years denying she had a problem. Her principal trouble with HERSELF was not wanting to go and seek help. She was very proud. If you admits you have a problem and ask for help, you have half of your battle already won. I¡ll be praying for you, my dear.
And how you've realized you are anorexic?
Vanesa. Miss Vanesa, How is your cousin now? I hope better! How'd I realize? Well, ever since 13 I have always struggled with my body image. At 14 I was tempted to starve myself but didn't for just about a week. 15 was really hard for me and I was tempted more and more to starve myself to lose weight fast. I did it sometimes. Like a few days before church so maybe I'd look thinner. For a while I became obsessed with exercising. The week before my 16th birthday party I didn't eat right for a week because I knew I'd be seeing some people I hadn't seen in a long time and I didn't want them to think I was chubby now. Also I'd be eating sweets. So, about early February I got obsessed with losing weight more than ever. I wrote out my own diet and exercise sheet. The diet sheet went something like this.... Breakfast: 50 calorie fruit crisp with water. Lunch: 3 cheese crackers with tea. Dinner: Eat in extremely SMALL portions and drink juice. Dessert: 1 Twizzler Snack: BlueberriesSo, it took a while to stick with that. The exercising was going good but I got obessed with it again though. I started losing weight. My pants started falling off. My belt wasn't able to be tight enough. I was always looking at calorie and fat content. I ate salads for dinner sometimes. Then last Friday I noticed my eyebrows were falling out. Not drastically but they just were coming out! Then, Saturday a big clump of my hair came out. My parents had noticed when I brushed my hair a LOT of hair would come out. I was starting to get headaches. Sunday at church during praise and worship I about fainted from standing up so long. I had one of those fruit things for breakfast. Then after church for lunch I had ONE cracker. Then I went for a walk/jog for 45 minutes. We were having a dinner that night at church and the way Mom puts it there were just "dots" on my plate. Even a lady friend of ours noticed how little I was eating. When we got home Mom wanted to talk. She said she has noticed how pale I have been, circles under my eyes all the time, weakness, dizziness, being sick more often, etc. She said I needed help. I need to EAT. But I told her I get so full after like 3 bites. My stomach has shrunk obviously. That's when I realized. I was doing all those things anorexics do when they start. I have even been tempted to wrap myself in plastic to lose weight by sweating. (Crazy!) So, it's been very hard to eat because I don't want to gain the weight back. So I am trying to eat a lot of healthy things. Yesterday I splurged and had some pistacho gelato. It was good. But it's really hard so please keep me in your prayers. I hope I have made sense. I wrote this in a hurry. Haha! Have a nice day! "The beauty of a woman is incredibly radiant when she finds her identity, her confidence, & her hope in Christ alone. "
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Krissy Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 45733 Location : Ontario, Canada Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:28 pm | |
| When me and my friend was your age..she went threw the same thing has you. I was the chubby one.And my friend was like very small. So i was kind of jelouse of her cause was like tiny...And she thought she was fat..I was thinking she was CRAZY..She used to eat then would make her self throw up..But she NEVER admited she needed help or knew she had a problem. I'am very proud of you that ur geting help.Hope you get better. “Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.” ― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables | |
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Amy Somewhere in Time
Number of posts : 13417 Location : Michigan Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Tue Mar 22, 2011 9:05 pm | |
| Julia, I'm so sorry you're going through so much. Admitting this is the first step. I hope you can get the help that you need, and I'll be praying for you. (((HUGS))) | |
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Vanesa Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5136 Location : Buenos Aires, Argentina Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:23 am | |
| Hello, Julia: My cousin is 40 years old now, and she is a teacher . She is happyli married, so nothing remained of her "anorexic past" . She wouldn't like to speak about her problems but her mother, who worked along with us in RealEstate, did, so I know pretty well how her illness developped. It was not a cas in which the person needs to be imnate in a hospital, but I know she suffered a lot. I don't exactly know what and how she would ate, but I know she always looked very thin and exhausted, with cercles under her eyes. She could eat very little and she feel full , just like you depicted you feel when eating. She used to say that when her mother wanted to force her to eat.Her eyebrows were O.K, but her hair began to come out too and to have headache. The odd thing is that my cousin didn't want to loss weight. It seems she had psychological issues that killed her wish for eating. She was never hungry. This was her problem. Hope this could help you just a little! Vanesa. | |
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Julia Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 1871 Location : Georgia Mood :
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Vanesa Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5136 Location : Buenos Aires, Argentina Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Sat Mar 26, 2011 1:16 am | |
| Try not to think on your dance...or just go to search psychological help. You need it desperately. Your mother is exapserated with you for she is worried, but this wouldn't help either. Maybe you could speak about this whole problem in your church. But you need some kind of help. Please, try to find it. Vanesa. | |
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Joe Prairie Settler
Number of posts : 875 Location : Tucson, AZ, USA, Earth Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Sat Mar 26, 2011 1:28 am | |
| - Vanesa wrote:
- Try not to think on your dance...or just go to search psychological help. You need it desperately. Your mother is exapserated with you for she is worried, but this wouldn't help either. Maybe you could speak about this whole problem in your church.
But you need some kind of help. Please, try to find it.
Vanesa. Great post Vanesa. I've followed this thread with a heavy heart. Miss Julia, be strong and do as she suggests. I wish you the best dear. "Willie, were you or were you not looking at the corsett ads in the catalogue?" - Nels | |
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I Love Dean Frontier Traveler
Number of posts : 329 Location : Deanland Wisconsin Mood :
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Rhonda Prairie Survivor
Number of posts : 21216 Location : On my bike!!! Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Sat Mar 26, 2011 1:51 pm | |
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Gin Ingalls Friend for Life
Number of posts : 5920 Location : Curled up with a great book. Mood :
| Subject: Re: Anorexic Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:39 pm | |
| Julia, I know you know Karen Carpenter. You have to decide if you want this to become who you are known as, just as Karen is now. She had talent, her music was God given, but people think of her illness too when they hear her name. You don't want that kind of label. Get the guideance of a doctor, you need it and it will change your life for the better. You are your Mom's only child now, and I know she has dreams for you. Your Grandmother would want you happy and healthy as well. You have taken the first steps just let a doctor guide you on now. Love you peach.... It is the lack of Christianity that has brought us where we are. Not a lack of churches or religious forms but of the real thing in our hearts. LIW.....Words From a Fearless Heart | |
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